Thursday, March 27, 2014

Recomendation: Personal Shopper Japan

If you are looking for another International Shopping Agent...



This past year, I realized that I needed to keep my options for a Shopping agent open to more than one company. Some agents are willing to go the distances just to keep their customers happy and I've found that with Personal Shopper Japan aka PSJ. Whatever required service that you need, PSJ is willing to accommodate in a timely fashion.

Consistent Communication. Smooth & Excellent Transactions. Speedy Delivery.

With my experience with PSJ, I was able to get a Hello Kitty plush that cannot be bought online from Puroland. They provide a service that a staff member will personally go to Sanrio Puroland and buy your item.  Since then, I've had four successful transactions with PSJ. Superb service.

More importantly, if you ever need to find a limited and/or exclusive item, this is one shopping service that will try their best to go one step further to get that limited stock item in the hour that the item is being released. Due to time constraint, many personal shopping services are not able or willing to accommodate a customer's special need. I know because I've contacted many other shopping agents, who have told me that they cannot provide the time constraint service that I needed for my Sanrio obsession. At the end of the day, PSJ is one of two shopping agent services that I keep returning as one of their loyal customers. 

Without these Japan Shopping Agents, my Sanrio collection would never have grown to the size that it has to date.  

Happy Sanrio hunting, fellow collectors!

Wednesday, March 26, 2014

Tarina Tarantino: Pink Head Mod Ring (Orange)

Tarina Tarantino...



My Sanrio Rating: 
I've always wanted to buy a Hello Kitty ring from the fashion jeweler, Tarina Tarantino, but I never really found *the* perfect design that would capture my eye for eternity. At last, I've found the ring.

It's modern and chic, the best combo that you can ask for...
This ring is perfect in every way. The pink head mod design is what attracted me into buying my first Tarina Tarantino jewelry. The Swarovski crystals adds a sparkly shine to the ring, making it more stylish and chic. I'll definitely be buying more Hello Kitty rings from this fashion jeweler!

Thursday, March 6, 2014

Is there an Agenda?

Why is everything gender specific these days?


It feels like all the toy manufacturers are on the same agenda plan for future generations laid out by our American government. Hmm...

POP! Did y'all hear that?
That's the sound of many Hello Kitty fanboys' hopes fizzling out. There goes the plan to stop stereotypes for male Sanrio fans. Wouldn't this be harder for more of the mainstream society to accept guys liking Hello Kitty? I feel a little bad, too, at times forgetting that there are guys out there who are Sanrio fans. When I write, I tend to generalize and assume my readers are females. 

Also, I have to point out that one of Sanrio's agenda goals is to hook most girls into becoming Sanrio addicts from a young age and to pass the obsession to their future daughters. Unfortunately, this further continues the stereotype that Hello Kitty is only for children.  

So, my question to Hello Kitty fans all around the world, is there a good mature way of fighting this stereotype without resorting to name calling and calling non-fans haters?

Pic Provided by Mom-101

Trends & Top Picks from the 111th American International Toy Fair

By Anna Sandler

I recently attended the American International Toy Fair, a massive event at the Javits Center in New York City featuring more than 1,000 companies showcasing the latest in games, toys, crafts, stuffed animals and dolls.
This is my third year going to the Toy Fair, and in addition to seeking out what I think are the best new products for kids, I also visit the Toy Fair to find out what the latest trends are in the industry, usually both for better and worse.
Here are the trends I noticed this year:
Toys are more gender-specific than ever. For example, it’s rare to see a toy that is 50 multi-colored building blocks. Now, it’s 50 pink blocks and a princess figure or 50 blue blocks and a policeman. It may be what’s best for the toy manufacturers, but I’m doubtful it’s what’s best for the child.
There aren’t as many stand-alone toys as there used to be. This year, the majority of toys being promoted as a company’s top seller were so because they featured a popular TV show, movie or beloved character. It’s not that I don’t love Hello Kitty, but I’m not sure it adds anything to a baby’s teether.

You can read the rest of the article here...

Here is another great article...

Toy companies: Please please please stop ignoring what girls really want 

(Hint: it's not always pink.)

This week at the NY International Toy Fair, there were two words I found coming out of my mouth more than any other:
“Or girls.”
I was floored by the number of manufacturers telling me, over and over and over, “we have these awesome craft kits for kids including knitting, embroidery, tie-dyeing…or science kits for boys!”
Or girls. 
“We have this line of costumes here, like brides, princesses, fairies, and nurses. Then there’s this line of firefighters, soldiers, superheroes and astronauts for boys. ”
Or girls. 
“And here, we have the ferret plush in pink for girls, and then in brown for boys.”
Or girls.
It blew me away.
The company with the costumes featured above did have one superhero outfit for girls that I saw: Robin, of Batman and Robin fame, complete with a tutu.
A crimefighting tutu, surely.
Since the moment a few years back that I was completely confused as to why a McDonald’s Drive-Thru attendant asked me if I wanted a boy or girl Happy Meal (unrelated to the gender of the animal from whence the food came, I subsequently learned) I have had a heightened awareness of how the toy industry is increasingly dividing boys and girls in ways I really thought we got past in the 70′s . That was when the first toy I remember really desperately wanting was an Evel Knievel Stunt Cycle. It was also the first toy that made me realize all toy ads lied about how good their crappy toys were. But that’s another story.

The thing is, despite all my frustration and disappointment with the boy/girl toy separation, despite all my awareness, I am 100% totally guilty of it too.
We walk into a toy store to get Thalia’s friend a birthday gift and while I tend to gravitate toward crafty gifts, I automatically look at the jewelry box-painting sets or friendship bracelet kits. Not that there’s anything wrong with that. My girls would make Rainbow Loom bracelets until dawn if I let them (and so would plenty of boys by the way). But I don’t necessarily peruse the science experiment kits, the microscopes, or the Lord of the Rings LEGOs for her 9-year-old girlfriends, despite my own girls being card-carrying graduates of the school LEGO Builders Club and Science Experiment Club.
The times I do consider these gifts, I have to ask, “would Emily like something like a microscope or a geode kit?”
I realize I don’t ask that question quite so often if we’re buying gifts for boys. Nor do I ask whether Caleb would enjoy a Rainbow Loom.
So what the heck is going on when I have to mentally push myself out of the pink tutu mindset to shop for girls who aren’t my own?  It’s kind of disheartening when even parents like me, who should know better, get stuck in this stereotypical rut.
I even see evidence of it on Cool Mom Picks–we can feature a gender-neutral red and blue felt crown from an Etsy artist which will get a ton of love on Pinterest. But show the same one in pink with little bunnies on it–the shop sells out its stock.

I was thrilled that there were actually a few smart toys for girls that defy the pink aisle which I wrote about, including Alma Loveland‘s awesome Attatoys Mixmates blocks. (I didn’t once have to say “or girls” when we talked, or anything!) I’ve met her a few times at conferences, and I’m so thrilled that she’s got a potential home run on her hands for all kinds of kids. However her kind of thinking was exceedingly rare at a show with more than 1000 exhibitors, some of which should know better.
There’s one moment at the show which stands out most to me as emblematic of the entire issue. A young PR rep for a brand was kindly introducing me to four new girl dolls: a ballerina, a baker, a fashionista (whatever that is) and I am blanking on the other one. Hooters girl? I forget. I asked the woman why there couldn’t be one–just one–who was an astronaut or a veterinarian or something a little less stereotypical. It was clear I completely caught her off guard, because her jaw actually dropped and she stood silent for a bit before stammering something about how “well, ballerinas…that’s what all five-year-old-girls want to be.”
Which is not the right answer. I was shocked. And so was Christina who is my witness to this all, and fellow concerned mom-of-girls.
So I asked my friends and followers on Twitter what their daughters want to be when they grow up. I think the answers are wonderful, diverse, and fascinating.

@craftforesty: She wants to be a “disco truck driver” or a snowboarder. – Lola, age 6
@kathyinalaska: My 6yo wants to be a ballerina or an FBI agent.
@JLBarnes9: Mia: “independent”, Kyra: “A veterinarian”
@TheJulieMarsh: Tacy: “An author or a marine biologist or a politician.” CJ: “I have no idea, but something important though.”
@ballantynetanya: My five year old wants to be a construction worker
@wandsci: A teacher and a doctor (this week). The one who wants to be a teacher says she’ll also write books.
@stefaniya: One wants to be a scientist, the other wants to own a tea shop and sing in a band in her free time.
@monabenach: first woman to play professional baseball.
@WellVersedMom: My daughters’ choices have been marine biologist, pilot, singer, architect & graphic designer.
@overflowinbrain: Archaeologist, volcanologist, scientist.
@JennaStern: Architect.
@FabiSaba: an astronaut veterinarian.
@Enza0305: Celya, 9: either a babysitter, or a baker, or work at a shelter for dogs :) and she doesn’t want to go to ballet classes anymore…
@redshutters: Mine wants to be veterinarian, ballerina & doctor–sky’s the limit for her!
@jenrenpody: a dancer & an artist. I blew her mind when I talked to her about dance itself being art. She loves to create, and she’s 6.
@Nosepicked0811: happy #1. She wants to be an astronaut on Monday, scientist Tues, fashionista/boutique owner Wed, & world traveler the rest. :)
@TheInsideLife: Ella, 5yrs: “A doctor, a writer, and a church worker.”
@jadetert: Builder, teacher, mom, or veterinarian (5 yr old)
@mheschmeyer: Broadway actor, broadway actor, and pediatrician. 
@JKonfrst: U.S. Senator
@michelledwood: professional volleyball player.
@ChaosRu: One of the first people to go to Mars. Also an engineer.
@ttsiegel: A singer/artist/astronomer (C, age 4 1/2); a teacher/mommy (E, age 4 1/2).
@kristins4kids: 1-music teacher or author; 1-lamb farmer or music teacher; 1-figure skater.
@alexaflotsam: Spy, writer, teacher, actress. Mostly writer, which I am (cannot tell you if I am also spy, obviously.)
@cuizoo: Just asked. She is unsure at this point, but is completely sure she doesn’t want to be a model or a ballerina.

Now granted, this is not scientific research in the least. If I passed it off that way, every strategic planner I’d ever worked with would unfriend me instantly. My readers may be more progressive than most–and it’s possible that the parents with girls who want to be models and fashionistas didn’t respond.
(Also, where the heck were the men in this conversation? Dads are just as responsible for raising enthusiastic, curious daughters too.)
Still, if you look at the answers, there are definitely a few ballerinas and mommies in the bunch. There are singers and actresses and (adorably) a babysitter. And hey, I’m all for girls wanting to be princesses. Or pop stars. But the aspirations for girls don’t end there.
So why do girls’ toys?
The problem with the ballerina-fashionista dolls I saw isn’t that such a thing exists; it was creative, technologically speaking, and will probably be very successful. The challenge as I see it is the company so takes for granted that this is what a girl toy is, that they wouldn’t even think to prep a PR person for any potential questions about why.
(I’m sorry PR rep, for catching you off-guard; you are really sweet and I didn’t mean to throw you. I just assumed it was a standard question with a standard answer about market research or something that would have been interesting.)

Now I also spent a lot of time in the LEGO booth at Toy Fair too. (I have never done business with them; I just like LEGOs.) And while they have gotten a lot of flack for LEGO Friends over the past year, I stand in defense of them. Whether the bricks are pink or red or black, they all interlock, they all work together, and they get girls building even when they are all but ignored by other companies.
I realize that girls do play with toys differently than boys do. And I know that are girls who would rather play with a hair stylist than a LEGO City police officer or Tauriel the Elf. So I appreciate that they’re all made available–and should your kid wants to stick a sword in the hairdresser’s hands (battle with evil competitive alien hair salon?) she can.

The bigger issue, as far as I can tell are the toy retailers. Big and small. Several product developers and PR folks spoke off the record to me, explaining that some retailers mandate toys that neatly fit the way they merchandise their toys at shelves: One aisle for boys, and one for girls. They ask for custom pink versions of everything from dolls to bookshelves. They ask for distinct packaging featuring either boys or girls on the boxes. They justify that this is “giving parents a choice.”
And yet, our only choice as parents isn’t boy or girl at all. It’s blocks or cars? Expensive or cheap? Big or small? Building or crafts? Science or poetry? Animals or robots? The list goes on.
As one smart parent suggested, “why don’t they just display the toys by age? I have no idea what to get a four-year-old at all.”

Indeed.

Interestingly, the company with the gihugic costume display at Toy Fair that you couldn’t miss to save your life, featured the tagline, Dream. Believe Achieve.
I would love them–along with any marketer, salesperson or distributor who has ever employed the sentence And for boys we have…. in a pitch–to stop a moment and consider exactly what they think they are encouraging children to dream and achieve.  And I’d love us as parents to consider the same thing. Especially when we automatically drop a Make-Your-Own Sparkle Lipgloss Kit in our carts instead of a telescope.
Or whatever plaything it is that they make for wannabe U.S. Senators, spies, and disco truck drivers